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    <title>Two Psychologists Four Beers - Episodes Tagged with “Meaning”</title>
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    <description>Two psychologists endeavor to drink four beers while discussing news and controversies in science, academia, and beyond.
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    <itunes:author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</itunes:author>
    <itunes:summary>Two psychologists endeavor to drink four beers while discussing news and controversies in science, academia, and beyond.
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  <title>Episode 129: RE-RELEASE: Terrible Advice (with Paul Bloom)</title>
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  <itunes:episode>129</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>RE-RELEASE: Terrible Advice (with Paul Bloom)</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Yoel and Mickey welcome many-time guest Paul Bloom to the podcast to dispense terrible advice. We first talk about parenting—its impact on happiness and meaning, its transformation of the person; and then discuss perversity, including the enjoyment of doing transgressive things for no good reason.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:08:30</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Instead of a new episode this month, we have one from the vaults that many newer listeners might not have heard (because it came out almost 7 years ago). But, especially since Paul has a new baby (see first link), re-releasing this one seemed fitting. And it's always been one of my favorites. We'll be back with new episodes in the coming months.
Original Episode Description
Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?
Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5? Special Guest: Paul Bloom.
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  <itunes:keywords>parenting, perversity, advice, values, happiness, meaning</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Instead of a new episode this month, we have one from the vaults that many newer listeners might not have heard (because it came out almost 7 years ago). But, especially since Paul has a new baby (see first link), re-releasing this one seemed fitting. And it&#39;s always been one of my favorites. We&#39;ll be back with new episodes in the coming months.</p>

<p><strong>Original Episode Description</strong></p>

<p>Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?</p>

<p>Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5?</p><p>Special Guest: Paul Bloom.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Small Potato - by Paul Bloom - Small Potatoes" rel="nofollow" href="https://smallpotatoes.paulbloom.net/p/small-potato">Small Potato - by Paul Bloom - Small Potatoes</a></li><li><a title="Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library" rel="nofollow" href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00574.x">Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library</a></li><li><a title="Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers - PubMed" rel="nofollow" href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30649536/">Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers - PubMed</a></li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797612447798?journalCode=pssa">In Defense of Parenthood - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013</a></li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.cmu.edu/dietrich/sds/docs/loewenstein/DefenseParenthood.pdf">In Defense of Parenthood</a></li><li><a title="What You Can&#39;t Expect When You&#39;re Expecting" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.lapaul.org/papers/whatCantExpect.pdf">What You Can't Expect When You're Expecting</a></li><li><a title="Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797610397057?journalCode=pssa">Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011</a></li><li><a title="The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions | The New Yorker" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.newyorker.com/culture/annals-of-inquiry/perverse-incentives">The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions | The New Yorker</a></li><li><a title="St. Vincent - Smoking Section (Official Audio) - YouTube" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD8QOaTB9NM&amp;list=RDRD8QOaTB9NM&amp;start_radio=1">St. Vincent - Smoking Section (Official Audio) - YouTube</a></li></ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Instead of a new episode this month, we have one from the vaults that many newer listeners might not have heard (because it came out almost 7 years ago). But, especially since Paul has a new baby (see first link), re-releasing this one seemed fitting. And it&#39;s always been one of my favorites. We&#39;ll be back with new episodes in the coming months.</p>

<p><strong>Original Episode Description</strong></p>

<p>Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?</p>

<p>Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5?</p><p>Special Guest: Paul Bloom.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Small Potato - by Paul Bloom - Small Potatoes" rel="nofollow" href="https://smallpotatoes.paulbloom.net/p/small-potato">Small Potato - by Paul Bloom - Small Potatoes</a></li><li><a title="Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library" rel="nofollow" href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00574.x">Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library</a></li><li><a title="Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers - PubMed" rel="nofollow" href="https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30649536/">Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers - PubMed</a></li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797612447798?journalCode=pssa">In Defense of Parenthood - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013</a></li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.cmu.edu/dietrich/sds/docs/loewenstein/DefenseParenthood.pdf">In Defense of Parenthood</a></li><li><a title="What You Can&#39;t Expect When You&#39;re Expecting" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.lapaul.org/papers/whatCantExpect.pdf">What You Can't Expect When You're Expecting</a></li><li><a title="Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797610397057?journalCode=pssa">Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011</a></li><li><a title="The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions | The New Yorker" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.newyorker.com/culture/annals-of-inquiry/perverse-incentives">The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions | The New Yorker</a></li><li><a title="St. Vincent - Smoking Section (Official Audio) - YouTube" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RD8QOaTB9NM&amp;list=RDRD8QOaTB9NM&amp;start_radio=1">St. Vincent - Smoking Section (Official Audio) - YouTube</a></li></ul>]]>
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  <title>Episode 71: The Good Life</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 01 Sep 2021 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</author>
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  <itunes:episode>71</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>The Good Life</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Alexa and Yoel discuss a new paper arguing that psychological richness is an overlooked aspect of the good life (well, overlooked by well-being researchers, anyway). Also, Alexa reviews an (accidentally-purchased) alcohol-free beer.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:06:27</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
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  <description>Alexa and Yoel discuss a new paper  (Oishi &amp;amp; Westgate, 2021) arguing that psychological richness is an overlooked aspect of the good life.  In the process, they compare psychologically-rich-life scores, plan hypothetical vacations, and compare major regrets.
Also, Alexa reviews an (accidentally-purchased) alcohol-free beer. 
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  <itunes:keywords>richness, happiness, meaning, good life</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Alexa and Yoel discuss a new paper  (Oishi &amp; Westgate, 2021) arguing that psychological richness is an overlooked aspect of the good life.  In the process, they compare psychologically-rich-life scores, plan hypothetical vacations, and compare major regrets.</p>

<p>Also, Alexa reviews an (accidentally-purchased) alcohol-free beer.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="IPA du Nord-Est (beer) - Episode | Boréale | Boréale" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.boreale.com/en/beers/episodes/ipa-du-nord-est">IPA du Nord-Est (beer) - Episode | Boréale | Boréale</a></li><li><a title="Low Viz IPA | Arches Brewing | BeerAdvocate" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.beeradvocate.com/beer/profile/45080/422218/">Low Viz IPA | Arches Brewing | BeerAdvocate</a></li><li><a title="Run Wild IPA (Non-Alcoholic) 6-Pack | Athletic Brewing Company | Craft Non-Alcoholic Beer" rel="nofollow" href="https://athleticbrewing.com/products/run-wild-ipa-non-alcoholic-6-pack">Run Wild IPA (Non-Alcoholic) 6-Pack | Athletic Brewing Company | Craft Non-Alcoholic Beer</a></li><li><a title="A psychologically rich life: Beyond happiness and meaning. - PsycNET" rel="nofollow" href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021-74886-001">A psychologically rich life: Beyond happiness and meaning. - PsycNET</a></li><li><a title="Just think: The challenges of the disengaged mind" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4330241/">Just think: The challenges of the disengaged mind</a></li><li><a title="Diederik Stapel&#39;s Memoir" rel="nofollow" href="https://errorstatistics.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/fakingscience-20141214.pdf">Diederik Stapel's Memoir</a></li><li><a title="The Kinks - Sunny Afternoon (Official Audio) - YouTube" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYIl6n_SRCI">The Kinks - Sunny Afternoon (Official Audio) - YouTube</a></li></ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Alexa and Yoel discuss a new paper  (Oishi &amp; Westgate, 2021) arguing that psychological richness is an overlooked aspect of the good life.  In the process, they compare psychologically-rich-life scores, plan hypothetical vacations, and compare major regrets.</p>

<p>Also, Alexa reviews an (accidentally-purchased) alcohol-free beer.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="IPA du Nord-Est (beer) - Episode | Boréale | Boréale" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.boreale.com/en/beers/episodes/ipa-du-nord-est">IPA du Nord-Est (beer) - Episode | Boréale | Boréale</a></li><li><a title="Low Viz IPA | Arches Brewing | BeerAdvocate" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.beeradvocate.com/beer/profile/45080/422218/">Low Viz IPA | Arches Brewing | BeerAdvocate</a></li><li><a title="Run Wild IPA (Non-Alcoholic) 6-Pack | Athletic Brewing Company | Craft Non-Alcoholic Beer" rel="nofollow" href="https://athleticbrewing.com/products/run-wild-ipa-non-alcoholic-6-pack">Run Wild IPA (Non-Alcoholic) 6-Pack | Athletic Brewing Company | Craft Non-Alcoholic Beer</a></li><li><a title="A psychologically rich life: Beyond happiness and meaning. - PsycNET" rel="nofollow" href="https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2021-74886-001">A psychologically rich life: Beyond happiness and meaning. - PsycNET</a></li><li><a title="Just think: The challenges of the disengaged mind" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4330241/">Just think: The challenges of the disengaged mind</a></li><li><a title="Diederik Stapel&#39;s Memoir" rel="nofollow" href="https://errorstatistics.files.wordpress.com/2014/12/fakingscience-20141214.pdf">Diederik Stapel's Memoir</a></li><li><a title="The Kinks - Sunny Afternoon (Official Audio) - YouTube" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TYIl6n_SRCI">The Kinks - Sunny Afternoon (Official Audio) - YouTube</a></li></ul>]]>
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  <title>Episode 26: Terrible Advice (with Paul Bloom)</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 24 Jul 2019 05:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</author>
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  <itunes:episode>26</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>Terrible Advice (with Paul Bloom)</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Yoel and Mickey welcome returning guest Paul Bloom to the podcast to dispense terrible advice. We first talk about parenting—its impact on happiness and meaning, its transformation of the person; and then discuss perversity, including the enjoyment of doing transgressive things for no good reason.</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:08:30</itunes:duration>
  <itunes:explicit>yes</itunes:explicit>
  <itunes:image href="https://media24.fireside.fm/file/fireside-images-2024/podcasts/images/6/69da8ae3-a19e-41ed-a678-0e145a936a3f/cover.jpg?v=3"/>
  <description>Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?
Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5? Special Guest: Paul Bloom.
</description>
  <itunes:keywords>parenting, perversity, advice, values, happiness, meaning</itunes:keywords>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?</p>

<p>Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5?</p><p>Special Guest: Paul Bloom.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library" rel="nofollow" href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00574.x">Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library</a> &mdash; This meta‐analysis finds that parents report lower marital satisfaction compared with nonparents</li><li><a title="Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers. - PubMed - NCBI" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30649536">Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers. - PubMed - NCBI</a> &mdash; Following the sharp decline in sleep satisfaction and duration in the first months postpartum, neither mothers' nor fathers' sleep fully recovers to prepregnancy levels up to 6 years after the birth of their first child.</li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood: Children Are Associated With More Joy Than Misery - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797612447798?journalCode=pssa">In Defense of Parenthood: Children Are Associated With More Joy Than Misery - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013</a> &mdash; The results indicate that, contrary to previous reports, parents (and especially fathers) report relatively higher levels of happiness, positive emotion, and meaning in life than do nonparents.</li><li><a title="A Reassessment of the Defense of Parenthood" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.cmu.edu/dietrich/sds/docs/loewenstein/DefenseParenthood.pdf">A Reassessment of the Defense of Parenthood</a> &mdash; In this Commentary, we report a reanalysis of the data,
which suggests that it is premature to abandon the idea
that children reduce happiness</li><li><a title="WHAT YOU CAN’T EXPECT WHEN YOU’RE EXPECTING" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.lapaul.org/papers/whatCantExpect.pdf">WHAT YOU CAN’T EXPECT WHEN YOU’RE EXPECTING</a> &mdash; It seems natural to choose whether to have a child by reflecting on what it would be like to have one. I argue that choosing on this basis is not rational, raising general questions about our ordinary conception of how
to make this life-changing decision.</li><li><a title="Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797610397057?journalCode=pssa">Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011</a> &mdash; Although raising children has largely negative effects on parents’ emotional well-being, parenthood is often idealized as a uniquely emotionally rewarding role. </li><li><a title="Break Music: St.Vincent - Smoking Section" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6kIN1P2CU8">Break Music: St.Vincent - Smoking Section</a></li><li><a title="The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.newyorker.com/culture/annals-of-inquiry/perverse-incentives">The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions</a> &mdash; Why do we enjoy doing things for no good reason?</li></ul>]]>
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  <itunes:summary>
    <![CDATA[<p>Yoel and Mickey welcome Paul Bloom to the podcast, who is not only a returning guest but also the Brooks and Suzanne Ragen Professor of Psychology at Yale University. We first give terrible advice on parenting. Does parenting affect happiness, relationship satisfaction, and meaning? Does parenting screw with prospective decision making because it leaves the decision maker utterly transformed? We next discuss perversity. Why do we enjoy doing transgressive things? Who is likely to be perverted? Is perversion ever a good strategy?</p>

<p>Bonus: How would Paul rate Yoel on a scale of 1 to 5?</p><p>Special Guest: Paul Bloom.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library" rel="nofollow" href="https://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/abs/10.1111/j.1741-3737.2003.00574.x">Parenthood and Marital Satisfaction: A Meta‐Analytic Review - Twenge - 2003 - Journal of Marriage and Family - Wiley Online Library</a> &mdash; This meta‐analysis finds that parents report lower marital satisfaction compared with nonparents</li><li><a title="Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers. - PubMed - NCBI" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/30649536">Long-term effects of pregnancy and childbirth on sleep satisfaction and duration of first-time and experienced mothers and fathers. - PubMed - NCBI</a> &mdash; Following the sharp decline in sleep satisfaction and duration in the first months postpartum, neither mothers' nor fathers' sleep fully recovers to prepregnancy levels up to 6 years after the birth of their first child.</li><li><a title="In Defense of Parenthood: Children Are Associated With More Joy Than Misery - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797612447798?journalCode=pssa">In Defense of Parenthood: Children Are Associated With More Joy Than Misery - S. Katherine Nelson, Kostadin Kushlev, Tammy English, Elizabeth W. Dunn, Sonja Lyubomirsky, 2013</a> &mdash; The results indicate that, contrary to previous reports, parents (and especially fathers) report relatively higher levels of happiness, positive emotion, and meaning in life than do nonparents.</li><li><a title="A Reassessment of the Defense of Parenthood" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.cmu.edu/dietrich/sds/docs/loewenstein/DefenseParenthood.pdf">A Reassessment of the Defense of Parenthood</a> &mdash; In this Commentary, we report a reanalysis of the data,
which suggests that it is premature to abandon the idea
that children reduce happiness</li><li><a title="WHAT YOU CAN’T EXPECT WHEN YOU’RE EXPECTING" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.lapaul.org/papers/whatCantExpect.pdf">WHAT YOU CAN’T EXPECT WHEN YOU’RE EXPECTING</a> &mdash; It seems natural to choose whether to have a child by reflecting on what it would be like to have one. I argue that choosing on this basis is not rational, raising general questions about our ordinary conception of how
to make this life-changing decision.</li><li><a title="Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011" rel="nofollow" href="https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/abs/10.1177/0956797610397057?journalCode=pssa">Idealizing Parenthood to Rationalize Parental Investments - Richard P. Eibach, Steven E. Mock, 2011</a> &mdash; Although raising children has largely negative effects on parents’ emotional well-being, parenthood is often idealized as a uniquely emotionally rewarding role. </li><li><a title="Break Music: St.Vincent - Smoking Section" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=r6kIN1P2CU8">Break Music: St.Vincent - Smoking Section</a></li><li><a title="The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.newyorker.com/culture/annals-of-inquiry/perverse-incentives">The Strange Appeal of Perverse Actions</a> &mdash; Why do we enjoy doing things for no good reason?</li></ul>]]>
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  <title>Episode 10: Conservative Social Psychologist Wanted (with Clay Routledge)</title>
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  <pubDate>Wed, 26 Sep 2018 03:00:00 -0400</pubDate>
  <author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</author>
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  <itunes:episode>10</itunes:episode>
  <itunes:title>Conservative Social Psychologist Wanted (with Clay Routledge)</itunes:title>
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  <itunes:author>Yoel Inbar, Michael Inzlicht, and Alexa Tullett</itunes:author>
  <itunes:subtitle>Yoel and Mickey welcome psychologist Clay Routledge to the show. Clay discusses what it's like to be a non-liberal in social psychology, his experiences growing up in Côte d’Ivoire and Missouri, and his book "Supernatural: Death, Meaning, and the Power of the Invisible World."</itunes:subtitle>
  <itunes:duration>1:13:43</itunes:duration>
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  <description>Yoel and Mickey welcome Clay Routledge to the show. Clay is a professor of psychology at North Dakota State University who studies the cognitive and motivational consequences of the search for meaning, including religion and other supernatural beliefs. Clay talks about his childhood growing up as the child of missionaries in Africa and the U.S., what it's like to be outside the liberal mainstream in psychology, and how religion and belief in alien visitors may be connected. Special Guest: Clay Routledge.
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  <itunes:keywords>intellectual diversity, politics, psychology, academia, religion, meaning</itunes:keywords>
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Premium-quality beers from Northern Germany</li><li><a title="Clay Routledge" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.clayroutledge.com/">Clay Routledge</a> &mdash; Behavioral Scientist, Author, Consultant, Professor</li><li><a title="Clay Routledge (@clayroutledge) | Twitter" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/clayroutledge">Clay Routledge (@clayroutledge) | Twitter</a></li><li><a title="The Campus Left vs. the Mentally Ill - WSJ" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-campus-left-vs-the-mentally-ill-1505343051">The Campus Left vs. the Mentally Ill - WSJ</a> &mdash; Berkeley offers counseling to those upset by a guest speaker. Other students have genuine problems</li><li><a title="Social Justice in the Shadows - Quillette" rel="nofollow" href="https://quillette.com/2018/09/14/social-justice-in-the-shadows/">Social Justice in the Shadows - Quillette</a></li><li><a title="Supernatural: Death, Meaning, and the Power of the Invisible World" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0190629428/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0190629428&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=fourbeers-20&amp;linkId=7eb71b15b53a6293e08746339c83225d">Supernatural: Death, Meaning, and the Power of the Invisible World</a></li><li><a title="Don&#39;t Believe in God? Maybe You&#39;ll Try UFOs - The New York Times" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2017/07/21/opinion/sunday/dont-believe-in-god-maybe-youll-try-ufos.html">Don't Believe in God? Maybe You'll Try UFOs - The New York Times</a></li><li><a title="Suicides Have Increased. Is This an Existential Crisis?" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/23/opinion/sunday/suicide-rate-existential-crisis.html">Suicides Have Increased. Is This an Existential Crisis?</a></li></ul>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Yoel and Mickey welcome Clay Routledge to the show. Clay is a professor of psychology at North Dakota State University who studies the cognitive and motivational consequences of the search for meaning, including religion and other supernatural beliefs. Clay talks about his childhood growing up as the child of missionaries in Africa and the U.S., what it&#39;s like to be outside the liberal mainstream in psychology, and how religion and belief in alien visitors may be connected.</p><p>Special Guest: Clay Routledge.</p><p>Links:</p><ul><li><a title="Junkyard Brewing Company | Small craft brewery in Moorhead, MN" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.junkyardbeer.com/">Junkyard Brewing Company | Small craft brewery in Moorhead, MN</a></li><li><a title="Flensburger Brauerei" rel="nofollow" href="http://www.flens.co.uk/">Flensburger Brauerei</a> &mdash; FLENSBURGER BREWERY
Premium-quality beers from Northern Germany</li><li><a title="Clay Routledge" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.clayroutledge.com/">Clay Routledge</a> &mdash; Behavioral Scientist, Author, Consultant, Professor</li><li><a title="Clay Routledge (@clayroutledge) | Twitter" rel="nofollow" href="https://twitter.com/clayroutledge">Clay Routledge (@clayroutledge) | Twitter</a></li><li><a title="The Campus Left vs. the Mentally Ill - WSJ" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.wsj.com/articles/the-campus-left-vs-the-mentally-ill-1505343051">The Campus Left vs. the Mentally Ill - WSJ</a> &mdash; Berkeley offers counseling to those upset by a guest speaker. Other students have genuine problems</li><li><a title="Social Justice in the Shadows - Quillette" rel="nofollow" href="https://quillette.com/2018/09/14/social-justice-in-the-shadows/">Social Justice in the Shadows - Quillette</a></li><li><a title="Supernatural: Death, Meaning, and the Power of the Invisible World" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0190629428/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0190629428&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;tag=fourbeers-20&amp;linkId=7eb71b15b53a6293e08746339c83225d">Supernatural: Death, Meaning, and the Power of the Invisible World</a></li><li><a title="Don&#39;t Believe in God? Maybe You&#39;ll Try UFOs - The New York Times" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2017/07/21/opinion/sunday/dont-believe-in-god-maybe-youll-try-ufos.html">Don't Believe in God? Maybe You'll Try UFOs - The New York Times</a></li><li><a title="Suicides Have Increased. Is This an Existential Crisis?" rel="nofollow" href="https://www.nytimes.com/2018/06/23/opinion/sunday/suicide-rate-existential-crisis.html">Suicides Have Increased. Is This an Existential Crisis?</a></li></ul>]]>
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